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If she is with a friend / a group of friends
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...also known as disarming the obstacles
She is the target. The friend is the obstacle. Be it male a female, so many
AFC's make the fatal mistake of ignoring the friend / obstacle when making
sweet-talk with the target. An ignored obstacle is pissed and getting more
pissed all the time. Undoubtedly, the target's friends have much more influence
over her than you could ever exert in 5-10 minutes, which means that when the
pissed obstacles will eventually start interfering with your conversation,
dragging your target away ("come on, we have to go home / to another place"
etc.), talking with your target and ignoring you, making comments and just
generally breaking the mood… you're dead meat. If you were good enough to make
the target interested in you, she might be able to slip you her number while her
friend is already dragging her out the door. But more likely than not, in an
atmosphere poisoned by the pissed presence of the obstacle, you'll never have a
chance with the target.
So now what? The only option is to befriend the obstacles before engaging the
target. Make the target's friends - male, female, brothers, co-workers, whatever
- your best mates before you move on to working you magic with the one that
really drew you to their friendly circle in the first place. Have a good time
doing it, make lots of friends, shake hands, be humorous, lift everyone's
spirits. Make them laugh, feel good and like you:) And now, without having to
fear anything from all your new-found buddies you can move on to working your
target. Whom, by the way, you have already negged by paying the least amount of
attention to so far. And this has gotten her intrigued about you as she's
probably accustomed to being adored everywhere she goes:) But not by you, so
either you're accustomed to the presence of beautiful women or there's something
about her that you don't like, either way, she has got to find out, she has got
to make you adore her, she is so accustomed to that, "why is he not paying
attention to me!?", "gotta step up my efforts with this guy!", hehe:) (Don't
forget to read Neghits explained and
Neghits expansion pack:).
One more thing - once you've disarmed the obstacle / obstacles and engaged the
target, and this is critical, you need to separate her from her friend /
friends. If she is with a friend, you better have a wingman to keep the obstacle
busy and help in the effort of separating them. Very many girls don't like to be
seen kissing or touching someone in front of others / friends. They have the
issue of reputation to deal with etc. But once you're in a private place, she's
free to do whatever she wants without having to think "oh no, what's my friend
going to think about this", "is she gonna tell anyone / my boyfriend / mom?"
etc. Let's say you separated two friends, you're with one girl and your wingman
with another girl someplace else. You and the girl have no idea what you're your
wingman and her girl are doing. But that doesn't mean you can't imagine:) This
is where it gets interesting - she's gonna think her friend is probably already
making out and having all the fun, maybe even having sex already:) While her
friend is probably thinking the same thing:) So being separated and not knowing
what the other one is doing, both of them are much more receptive to all sorts
of advances:)
Applied with a wingman: if your wingman and his girl seem to be getting along,
tell your girl (without the other girl overhearing) that you should let those
two be alone and leave. Your girl will certainly initially wonder, what you mean
by that. "Open her eyes" with these:) - "Are you blind or something? Can't you
see what they're up to? Or do you want to watch them:)? Don't you know how
embarrassing it is when two people want to be alone and there's someone
watching?". This should make her "understand" and now the two of you can leave.
But the beauty of this is, that you leave with your girl thinking, that her
girlfriend is gonna get some in a few minutes:) The girlfriend however sees the
two of you leaving and can't help but think that you left so that you and your
girl could go have some private fun:) Now that you've got both of them thinking,
that the other one is going to get her brains screwed out in a few moments,
neither of them wants to be left out in the cold - voila:)!
A simple variation of removing obstacles / negging the target, ASF: "You see HB
and UG together - dance/talk/have fun with the UG instead, HB is surprised,
jealous and starts making an effort. Perfect."
Update
Mystery, ASF: "To get a 10 you NEED 7 and 8 girls to PAWN. Make them laugh
and the 10 in the other group will take notice. Then enter the group and be the
center. NEG the target while you address the rest of the crowd. Be so intersting
that they ask YOU questions. NEG the ten again in front of the friends. Then
once the group likes you, close in on the target with a mood of "ok ok, I'll let
you talk to me". You are appealing to her emotions. She felt bad for being left
out and then you GIVE IN and make her the center of attention."
Update
Johnny Shack (http://showgirls.com.au): "Remember: there is often some
(usually ugly) sour womens liberation girl in a group, who will stuff the
momentum up which is what leads to missing out on "story nights". So make note
of not leaving her out of the conversation. This girl can be very influential as
she will pull the morality strings of the group (which is the last thing you
need out there in jungle warfare). Get her interested in you and let the games
begin. Make that ugly and mouthy girl of tje group like you, this will allow the
others to act their slutty selves."
Update
Another example of getting a girl away from her friends by Z.A.,
SS-list: "Pardon the interruption.. I'd like to tell you something and which I
know you'll enjoy more in private. Believe me.." (motion with your hand to the
side or lead her with your open palm to the side. And then to her friends -)
"Excuse me ladies.. I'll borrow her only for a moment" (Once she's outside the
flock -) "..the reason I took you aside is that... (paaaaaaauuuuzzzz) all your
friends there are beautiful, of course.. but there is something about you that
absolutely stands out (besides her tits, but don't tell her that!).... and I
just HAD to tell you that. (Shut up until she asks or shows curiosity, then -)
(give her a sincere compliment that has nothing to do with her beauty, of
course, then -} and I hope you're the type of woman who can tell the difference
between a pickup (gesture away) and a sincere compliment (sp)". Give her a
knowing look (which you can use later on as an anchor), and walk away!! She'll
run after you!
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