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Where to meet girls
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(Taken from "Sweep women off their feet...":)
Shopping Malls. Try to remember the last time you went to a mall. Can you
possibly look in a direction and not spot a beautiful girl that you would like
to seduce? I'd venture a guess and say no.
The malls are always full of girls. Girls who work at various stores and shops
within the mall, but also a lot of girls who go shopping or just hang out. Girls
love shopping. Though it is harder to seduce a girl if she is surrounded by her
friends, it is not always the case.
Walk up and down the halls and look inside stores for beautiful clerks or
shoppers. If it is a women's clothing store or something feminine, even better.
You can easily walk up to a girl (clerk or shopper) and ask her:
"Excuse me. Would you be so kind to hold this up in front of you for a moment?
It's my sister's birthday next week and you are about the same size as her and
from what I can tell you have the same excellent fashion sense."
Better yet, after the initial approach you can even ask her if she sees anything
else that she really likes in the store that your sister might like too because
of the similar tastes in fashion. Probe for keywords why she likes certain
things over the others etc.
Once you have sufficient information of not only what she likes but also why she
likes it you can start your charm. Expand the conversation to likes and dislikes
in other areas of her life to get her view on things and so on. If she's a
shopper you might want to act very quickly to finding ways for you to continue
your conversation somewhere else, but if she works there she won't mind spending
the time with you especially if it's not very busy.
Libraries. If there is one place that girls almost always outnumber guys,
it has to be the library. Whether it's a public library or a college/university
library, you will always find young girls trying to do research for a project or
homework.
These girls are usually very intelligent and dedicated to their work, but the
plain truth is the fact that everybody can use a break once in a while. If you
provide a bit of a pleasant distraction they'll be more than happy to talk to
you. You could be asking them for some help to locate a specific section or
specialty book. Even if they can't help you out they will at least have to tell
you that they don't know where you can find your book. But guess what? That is a
conversation taking place right there. Ask them about their own work, interests,
etc. Show interest, and let them talk about it for a while.
These girls like to show off their knowledge so they'll tell you more than you
need to know about the subject. But if you develop good rapport at this stage
you can easily continue this fascinating conversation elsewhere. Get my drift?
You can start asking why they're interested in this particular subject, what's
the most fascinating thing about it, what are the challenges and so on. Once you
move to answering this type of questions then you will be able to get an insight
as to what type of girl she is, what she holds dear and so on.
Gourmet Coffee Shops. Before work, at lunch and after work these places
are packed with girls. Sometimes the more packed the place, the better because
you may have to share a table with "someone". If it's not very busy you can
still ask to sit next to a beautiful girl. Just tell her that you don't like to
sit alone and if she'd mind you sitting with her till you're done with your
drink.
If you're sitting together might as well talk about something. And remember this
is a gourmet coffee shop. These girls don't come here for the coffee, they come
here for the specialty coffee, and they come for the frills and sometimes even
the prestige associated with a particular specialty coffee shop.
So what do you talk about?
Her favorite drink and why she likes it over regular coffee, how does it make
her feel and so on. Try and talk in detail about the different sensations and
aromas. Women love descriptive talk in detail especially if it involves
something that can even be compared to a sexual sensation.
The whipped cream, the cherry on top, how the blend of the coffee with the
different liqueurs reminds you of a hot and steamy Latin love dance stimulating
your taste buds beyond comparison etc. I guess while you are at the library you
can pick up some books on gourmet foods and specialty drinks to learn the
language fine critics use to describe them. Believe me, talking like that can
make a girl melt even though you're only talking about a specialty coffee,
because you end up planting all these wonderful images in her mind by using
metaphors.
Workplace or School/College. This is a more relaxed atmosphere for
seducing women because you are not under time constraints. If you can't get her
hotter than hot for you today, you can talk to her again tomorrow. You'll have
much better opportunities to get to know her. In addition, if you work or study
closely together for an extended period of time chances are that you will become
attracted to each other anyway.
Personals. [A word of warning about personals - they will never get you
the experience of actually approaching and getting the attention of the woman
you want because a meeting arranged through personals simply skips this
important phase. So although meeting women this way might feel easier initially,
ultimately you will never learn the skills that really make the difference -
tony]
Is this too low for you? Is it beneath you? Hell no. Whether it's newspaper
personals, telephone personals, video personals or Internet personals and chat
rooms, they offer you excellent opportunities to meet a lot of women to practice
your skills.
With the exception of video personals the drawback is the fact that you don't
really know what the person looks like. But that's not a problem. It shouldn't
be your goal to meet someone to seduce right away. This is nothing but an avenue
for you to get practice and experience talking to women. But if things click for
you why not go for it anyway? If she turns out to be butt ugly just tell her
that as shallow as this seems, without the physical attraction things aren't
going to go anywhere between you two and move on.
Now when placing these personals you can attract a whole lot of women with some
catchy headline and be bothered with a lot of replies that get you nowhere
wasting your time. Or you can be very specific and discriminating about who you
are what you look like and what you're looking for. Feel free to include any
characteristics they may find unappealing. This will eliminate a lot of women
who might otherwise reply but the ones who do reply are more likely to end up
somewhere because they already know what to expect from you and are willing to
accept it.
Better yet, read a lot of the women's personals and try to model yours after
them.
As an added dirty trick, you can place a personal as a woman seeking a man to
get a lot of good ideas from other men who reply to it. Most of them will be
really bad but once in a while there will be one that will catch your eye and
curiosity. When you reply to a woman's personal ad try out these other ideas to
see if they work. If they work, you learned something new. If they don't work,
move on.
An example of a personals ad. ASF:
"Isn't attraction incredible? Imagine relaxing into strong arms holding you,
feeling safe and appreciated and intimate, knowing you're exactly where you
belong... I'm educated, successful, emotionally mature, and I know what I want.
My work keeps me busy, but I make time for travel, dining out, music (very
diverse tastes), and anything new and interesting. I'm tall, in great shape,
with green eyes and dark wavy hair (picture available). Looking to meet a woman
who's smart, honest, and loves to laugh. Now tell me all about you..."
Update. A few more US-specific places and times to
meet women. Speed Seduction newsletter, Ross Jeffries:
Restaurants with attached bars: These places are often great Tuesday to
Thursday nights, around 6 - 8:30 PM. Especially upscale places, they cater to a
professional crowd. Some VERY nice looking women looking to unwind after work.
Also often these places serve as a meeting ground for women having bacheleorette
parties.
Coffee houses: like Starbucks, Coffee Bean, Tea Leaf etc. Great from 8 -
10:30 AM every day of the week. After 9 AM you are more likely to get women who
work in retail, outside sales like pharmaceutical reps, self-employed, students
etc.
Supermarkets: M - F noon to around 1:30 PM as women on their lunch hours
pop into buy things. Monday to Thursday 6 - 8:30 PM, Saturdays 10 AM to noon,
same for Sundays.
Shopping malls: This is a no brainer. If they have a good food court and
are near offices, then noon til 1:30 PM, M - F. Hit the food courts and forget
most of the rest of the stores. Other good times: Tues - Thurs 6:30 - 8 PM and
Sat afternoons.
Self-improvement seminars: Such seminars are LOADED to the gunwales with
good-looking, SUGGESTIBLE women who are totally open to the type of themes
discussed in any good Speed Seduction pattern. Same with most of the self-help
gurus. Christ, ya don't even have to sign up. Just find out where they are being
held, hang out in the lobby of the hotel and swoop in on the HB's during the
coffee, pea and dinner breaks.
Gyms: The women are in awesome shape and usually quite adventurous.
Yoga Classes: Unbelievable amounts of hard-bodied, wildy well-shaped
women. Take a beginners class if you've never done it before and you'll met lots
of women, who are also VERY suggestible and open to "new ways" of thinking.
Update. Johnny Shack (http://showgirls.com.au):
Sporting clubs and associations: "These areas are very good for
meeting single women. You find out easily which women are single and you can
talk with them easily because you have a similar interest. What could be easier?
There is immediate conversation to talk about and its enough to get to know each
other enough to work out: "Am I attracted to this person or not?"
Now the footy club [Australian football?] is maybe not the best place for
hunting women but a netball club that has mixed competitions definitely is.
Gymnasiums are good to. Women at gyms will talk to any guy that talks to them.
Everything is on your side in these places because the woman knows you are in
the same club and therefore will not automatically be rude to you. Also it gives
them a harmless excuse to talk with you without people thinking any sleaziness
is going on. They may be waiting for you to say something."
See also:
Night-clubs vs other places to meet girls
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