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Demonstrate value and personality
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You have nothing, absolutely nothing to expect from a girl to whom you do not
demonstrate value and personality. Be it being Mr Smooth or making her horny
with GM or leading her imagination with patterning or simply being you in a
great mood, confident and witty which she finds attractive - you have to
demonstrate her something about you that she discovers to be of value for her.
And she will discover it being of value for her for the simple reason of liking
the way that value makes her feel.
So many guys think, that their mere presence and company is of some specific
value to the girl - well it is not. If you sport a great face and/or big
muscles, then your presence can sometimes be a turn-on for a girl - she likes
the way the proximity of your face and muscles make her feel and thus your
presence can be of separate value for her. But even the few times that happens,
it will wear off fast if it turns out that that is all you have to offer.
Any time the girl is bored, disinterested, turns you down, walks away, rejects
you or ignores you - you have simply not demonstrated enough value to her.
Demonstrating the right kind of value and personality, the kind that she is
especially looking for in a partner is not an issue at this point, you'll get to
that when Eliciting values. Right now you simply
need to get her attention by taking an educated guess at what she might be
interested in - see Good traits to have and develop.
Demonstrating any kind of value and personality from that list of traits will do
perfectly fine for starters, and is infinitely better than the "Here I am, this
is the way I look (and I'm sorry I'm not better-looking), now please like me"
attitude used by most guys (who are also "trying" to be funny and confident etc,
but eventually their AFC'ness will inevitably shine through:). Which will leave
them scratching their heads while the girl walks away and thinking "oh, better
luck next time, I'm sure someone somewhere will like me... I hope".
In fact, you are like a travelling salesman, giving girls only a foretaste of
the goods and offering them an opportunity to get the real stuff... "if they
behave well enough":) See the difference with AFC thinking? Which seems to
consider that the girls are the "goods" which you might eventually get if you
date, pay for dinners/movies and take their disrespect long enough? No, YOU are
the goods, but you're not selling to everyone - you offer only to a select group
of potential customers. But you don't need to push it, the stuff is for real and
you know it, and if one customer doesn't want it, its her loss, another one will
grab you gladly:)
Just don't forget - nobody will want your goods if they don't even know anything
about it. So sample it - by demonstrating value and personality.
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