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Indifference to Attraction pattern
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Partial Estonian translation
Try these, if you're dying to make love to a female friend of yours:)
Pattern I. Ross Jeffries:
"Have you ever looked at somebody (sp) and seen her in a completely new light?
Maybe even someone, who you never thought you could even like (sp, if you don't
know her very well or she exhibits signs of indifference for you, otherwise
point away from yourself), or maybe it was just a friend or acquaintance of
yours (sp, if this is the case), but for some inexplicable reason you start
finding him attractive. You start to think, how much fun it would be for the two
or you to be together. You imagine yourself with him (sp) having the time of
your life. And slowly you start to forget, what you used to think about this
person before and just let go with all these new and fantastic feelings you're
experiencing.
Like my friend Christina was telling me, that's how she met her boyfriend. They
used to go to the same lectures/meetings/office, but he never thought much of
the guy, he was just there and that was it. Then suddenly she started feeling
drawn and attracted to him. And now she thinks he is the best guy she's ever
been with. She told me he makes her feel… mmm… that kind of a feeling, deep
inside (touch solar plexus:)"
Pattern II. Ross Jeffries:
"Have you ever been attracted to someone who wasn't even your type physically?
Like I have this friend Nancy. And when I met Nancy, I didn't think she was that
appealing. I had little feelings for her whatsoever. But then when I started to
get to know her, I started to notice certain things, like the first thing I
noticed is that she has an absolutely great sense of humor. I mean have you ever
been around someone who makes you laugh so much, just the minute you see them
you're already waiting to laugh, like all they have to do is look at you and you
bust out laughing.
The other thing I noticed about her is that she really likes herself, I mean her
attitude was, hey, being with me is the best thing that could possibly happen to
you, you had better take advantage of it right now before that chance slips away
forever.
Then one day, I found myself looking through a new set of eyes. You ever look at
someone(pt) through a new set of eyes. Its like I look inside and, OH MY GOD,
when I look at her like that, this person is really beautiful.
I think when that happens to someone (point to her) with me in my way of
thinking what I think happens is when you go inside yourself, and you find those
values that are most important to you in a relationship and you think about the
qualities in a personality you want your ideal lover to have and then you just
find those and link them up with the person you're talking to (self-point), in
such a way that you begin to think things differently, you then start to look
through the eyes of attraction, cause I think when you look through the eyes of
attraction, look through the eyes of desire, that's when you can make that
connection, and really feel that growing.
Now that whole process can take weeks, even months of getting to know someone.
But I think the real wonder is to find yourself really wondering what would it
be like to surrender to the magic of that instantaneously and make that
connection . . now and really feel that attraction to someone (sp). Wouldn't
that be great? Isn't it just great to experience that and let it happen?"
Update. Pattern III. From an unknown source:
"Have you ever known someone who you weren't really attracted to but then, for
some mysterious reason, you just suddenly found that you started to THINK THINGS
DIFFERENTLY and SEE THEM IN A WHOLE NEW WAY, AS REALLY HORNY AND GORGEOUS?"
"I mean, I think sometimes people really don't know what they want, at least
consciously... but then it's like YOUR CONSCIOUS MIND DIVES DOWN (gesture
action) into your subconsciousness, and just (gesture action) BRINGS BACK UP ALL
THOSE DESIRES AND IMAGES AND FEELINGS INTO YOUR MIND."
"I mean, like my neighbour looked at me a couple days ago, and right out of the
blue she took me by the hands (take her by the hands) and says "Can you IMAGINE
IF WE WERE KISSING, and I was touching you where and how you love to be touched,
kissing the way you want, and you were starting to FEEL INCREDBLY TURNED ON, so
hot and turned on you like you have never been turned on before, up to the point
where you simply had to have me?"
"Can you believe she said that? Well, I was totally shocked and just managed to
spit out "Yes!". Although actually, I should had played back and said "Can YOU
imagine ME going down on you, MY TONGUE RUNNING DOWN YOUR THIGHS, SLIPPING DEEP
INTO YOU MAKING YOU SO HOT AND WET. Now, can YOU feel that pleasure just
building, pulsing and throbbing all through your body? Can you IMAGINE THAT
FEELING, can you FEEL THAT RIGHT NOW? (squeeze her hands - plant an anchor) Can
you SEE ALL THOSE IMAGES OF GOOD LOVING, big and bright, really turning you on?"
Note: This might be all that it takes - just fire off the anchor and get in
there - or if you feel you need more:
"Well that really got me so turned on. Now I feel that the experience of someone
starting to FEEL UNBELIVABLY TURNED ON has a structure and a sequence to it.
Like for some people, first they REALLY FEEL THOSE FEELINGS (fire anchor) and
then they start to SEE THOSE INCREDIBLE IMAGES. And other people SEE THOSE
IMAGES OF BURNING SEX first, and then they GET THOSE TURNED ON FEELINGS. I mean,
when I SEE THOSE IMAGES, mine are moving. Are your images moving or still
images?"
(Her: xxx)
"Right. I've found that the image and feelings sometimes bleed together... so as
the IMAGES GET BRIGHTER AND BIGGER the FEELINGS can REALLY INTENSIFY, so they're
just radiating and pulsing all through your body, and that MAKES THE PICTURES
BIGGER, which MAKES THE FEELING MORE INTENSE, till you can sometimes just LOSE
CONTROL COMPLETELEY and GO WILD WITH DESIRE!!!"
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