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Our World routine
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The Our World routine, contributed by Maniac High (http://www.pickupguide.com),
constructs an imaginary world for both you and the girl, where the two of you
can feel happy, comfortable and relaxed, and free to do anything you wish
irrespective of the rules and norms of society or the attitutudes of other
people, because quite simply - you are now in a different world, a world without
any outside influences, a world where normal rules don't apply, a world for just
the two of you. You are in "our world":)
The desired outcome of building "our world" in a conversation with the girl is
to agree on ending up at your place the next time you two meet. This also works
very well when arranging a "date" over the phone. But don't start building the
world until you know exactly, what it needs to be like. So first you have to
find out about her values and principles and her possible objections to meeting
you / ending up at your place. After you've done enough value-eliciting and come
to know her possible objections (she might have a boyfriend, she might be afraid
of social labelling etc), you can start building the perfect world for the two
of you, which represents all of which she values, circumvenes everything she
objects to but most importantly (and this is what you are striving for:) - is
free of any usual social restrictions and objections to sharing, loving,
touching, feeling wonderful in each other's company, you know where this list is
headed to:)
The following example assumes the girl has a boyfriend as an additional obstacle
(modified from Maniac High's post to ASF describing yet another Japanese PUA in
action).
The first thing to do is fluff talk and finding her interests, then shifting
from interests to romantic talk ASAP. For example, if a chick says she likes
snowboarding, you'll ask if she ever had a BF who liked snowboarding. If she did
- start talking about that BF, and what he was like. If not, you can ask if she
had a BF with any similar hobbies and then what he was like etc. Soon you can
move into what she likes in a guy, and relationships, and the onto the general
nature of human beings. Make sure the girl is fairly intelligent for such themes
though, beacause if she isn't, she might feel like you're flying over her head
and leaving her in the dust, in other words - miserable and bored. So if she
responds - continue; if not, switch themes.
Assuming she is able to keep up with the conversation about the nature of all
human beings, you can continue talking about what a human being is like in
his/her essence and what are his/her natural desires - a need, a craving for
affection and nurturing; giving, receiving and sharing love; feeling close and
becoming one with another human being; feeling protected and safe, yet free to
do whatever her heart wishes to do etc. Then compare that with how society
restricts her in certain ways, like being able to have only one BF or one
husband. Then talk about how it is interesting that in other societies, like
Arab or amongst certain Mormons it is different - the woman is free to have
several men and not feel ashamed or embarressed, because it is just an
expression of natural human feelings anyway (this one is tricky though - she
must be intelligent enogh to keep up with the conversation but not intelligent
enough to know that those claims are actually FALSE! So watch your step:). In
western cultures however this is (unfairly) looked down at.
This is where you introduce the concept of "our world". Suggest and idea of "our
own special world", where the rules of society don't have to apply (with the
underlaying message of "cheating on your BF is fine":), and where you can hold
each other and hug, be comfortable in each others arms, relaxed, happy and feel
secure. Your goal here is to make her feel secure and free to betray her BF,
because all of this takes place in a "separate world" of just the two of you
(apart from this example of using "our world" to overcome her objections to
cheating on her boyfriend, remember that you can use "our world" to overcome any
possible objections she might have).
After this is done and all set up, you then make the pitch for her to come over
in order to enjoy that separate world where you can be together and hold each
other in "our world". You describe how you can celebrate, hug, and don't forget
to say directly that she doesn't have to have sex if she doesn't want to
(continue building a world of security and freedom). Say something like "Have
you ever felt/noticed when holding each other, how it feels good, how it feels
to connect with each other and feel fabulous. I think that sex, well its like a
recognition of this connection". Usually around this point, she accepts to come
over and you agree on a time/date.
But you're not home free yet. Either when talking to her over coffee or over the
phone, don't end the conversation here. Her agreeing to come to your place might
mean she will be comfortable and then again, it might not. And even if she feels
comfortable about it at the moment, she might just freak out at the last moment
the next time you meet and bail. Women have a much more easier time accepting
almost anything, if they have been told about it in advance and they know to
expect it. So instead of leaving now, introduce and describe to her the next
time the two of you are going to meet. Describe the initial encounter in
beautiful, wonderful, uplifting and positive terms. Plus don't forget to add
some important details:)
Here's an example of what to say: "It will be a wonderful day, which you can
already imagine now... as I meet you at the (station/place), I will hug you, and
that connection will be visible, I will take your hand, and we will begin the
journey to "our world" (my place:)... and then when we arrive at the gate/door,
I will kiss you, and we will enter together and how nice it will be to connect,
hold each other, being free from restrictions of the outside world, when we are
in "our world" together, and feeling fabulous together. And how wonderful that
will all feel. You can imagine that, can't you?".
Now that you're scripted the encounter, the two of you can depart. And when the
day comes, act it out exactly as you described it (you can't do anything about
the weather though - if its raining when you were describing a sun-shiny day,
well, a bummer, lets hope she won't mind:).
So you meet the girl, hug her and say: "Welcome, I am glad you have come to
share "our world" today". You then take her and go to your place. At the door
you say: "Welcome to "our world", and add that you want to kiss you before you
enter, like you said on the phone. Usually the girl agrees and you can kiss her
gently outside (setting the stage for when she gets inside).
You go in, sit down. Talk about a relaxing secure hug, then start to hug on the
couch or wherever it is you sat down. Then kiss her again - which is okay, since
you already started outside. Then some more kissing... and more touching...
neck... ears... breast (okay, you're on your own from here on:).
Maniac High: "He says it works every time. It runs like clockwork, and he could
lay a girl after about 20 minutes after they got in."
See also:
Eliciting values
If she has second thoughts
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