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Networking and pivots
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Here's a rule never to forget: ugly girls have ugly girlfriends, mediocre
looking girls have mediocre looking girlfriends and… yep, you guessed it:) -
beautiful girls have beautiful girlfriends:) Networking in the context of this
guide is getting to know every beautiful girl's girlfriends - either she
introduces you to them, they want themselves to be introduced to you by her or
you hang out together and you get to know them naturally and… then you move on
to those girls and their girlfriends:) This is why it is important not to lose
one single girl - you will not only lose the girl but also a chance to meet all
her female friends and their female friends etc.
What do I mean by losing? The most glaring example is her "LJBF"-ing you - then
you're pretty much dead (and no, you won't be "friends" with her and get to meet
all her friends this way:). Naturally, if you play it right, it will never
happen to you - she either falls for you completely, or when you see that you're
not getting anywhere you cut your losses before she notices anything (and has a
chance to LJBF you), or she simply is not up to your standards and you LJBF her
instead. Besides being LJBF-ed you could lose a girl in a number of similar ways
- negging a sub-9 who'll hate you for it (see neg hits), confronting her with a
proposal she outright refuses ("can I buy you a drink?", "wanna dance?", "your
place or mine?":) - all of which communicate you a message of "I don' want you"
("at least not now" or "at least not this way" or "at least not here" to be more
precise:). (With enough knowledge, experience, sensitivity and persistence you
could of course regain control of the situation and even win her back. Would you
however have had those qualities in sufficient quantities, you should never have
encountered a situation of losing her in the first place:) So whenever you are
on the verge of losing a girl, remember that her value is not only in what she
herself has to offer but also in all her girlfriends you could get to know.
Thinking about it like that, it should become much easier for you to LJBF her
first (which in fact has much more of a chance of getting to be her friend than
her having LJBF-ed you:) or to keep her as a pivot instead of cutting her loose.
In addition to being able to make friends with all their girlfriends, keeping
girls as pivots has the added benefit of letting you be seen with girls. This
makes other girls envious and intrigued about you, and presents you as a
challenge as opposed to you being alone, thus "easy" and a bore plus a
"looks-like-nobody-wants-him-anyway". So get to know beautiful girls and their
girlfriends, hang out with them, network, make them your pivots whenever
appropriate. One word of caution though - don't forget that "being friends" with
beautiful girls and making them your pivots is not your GOAL, it is only a
side-strategy:) You do remember what your goal is, don't you:)?
NYC (ASF): "BASICALLY... it's use it or lose it. She has first right of refusal.
We are either going out as a guy and a girl that are going to be all over each
other and fuck at the end of the night, OR we are going out as ME trying to get
more bitches and you doing whatever the fuck YOU want to do, OR we are not going
out at all! Imagine taking your own PERSONAL COCK BLOCKER with you somewhere?
FUCK THAT! If she's not interested in having sex with me, it's INSTANT LJBF and
I will describe to her her role in getting me other chicks. I also tell her
DIRECTLY that I want to meet all her girlfriends. If she isn't down with that,
she's THROUGH!" Pretty graphic but to the point, NYC:) See also "The pivot
theory" for an elaboration on this.
Update
The magic of pivots further explained by Johnny Shack
(http://showgirls.au.com):
"If you are going to the same place all of the time then it is a good idea to
meet up with girls and hang in a group. Have you ever noticed how girls pay you
obvious attention when you are with a girl? If girls see you with other girls it
makes the world of difference. They all of a sudden want to know you. They
become a lot easier to start up a conversation with once they have seen you
around girls. It's as though you become a prize to them to see if they can
manipulate you into their web. They want to see if they can lure your thoughts
into their's thus winning out over the girl you are with. Girls are very bitchy
and competition between them is played with a completely different set of rules
than men. They also feel safe giving you "FUCK ME EYES" because they know they
can tease you and you probably won't approach them. I think sometimes they are
living out a fantasy being as forward as they choose to be with guys who are
supposedly taken. They know they are being tarty but the beauty of it is that
they know no-one will ever find out. If girls know in their minds you will not
tell anyone about having sex with them that night then you are half way there if
you have the girl interested in you [see also The Trust pattern for an
additional technique of alleviating her fear of people finding out the two of
you had sex]."
See also:
The pivot theory
The Trust pattern
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