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Neghits expansion pack
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- Use negs with 9s and preferably 10s only. Don't use a neg on a 7 or 8.
The 7s and 8s know what they are - cute, sweet, pretty etc - but not
drop-dead beautiful. Their confidence in their own beauty is only fairly
high and it could easily be destroyed by a neg. Shaking their confidence too
much and making them self-conscious could quite easily make them hate you
instead of wanting to be down with you - and that's not what you want:) The
9s and 10s however KNOW they are beautiful - they've been told so all their
lives; and then there's always the mirror to confirm that:) So your neg will
confuse and intrigue them and maybe even shake their confidence a little
bit, but only enough for them to fall from the clouds (which is where many
9s and 10s spend much of their time:) to the ground (which is where you are
waiting for them:) Compare that to falling from the ground into a deep hole,
which could easily happen to a 7 or 8 should you happen to neg her, and
you'll see, why you should be very discriminative in your use of the neg.
- The neg hit might backfire with a 9 or even a 10, if you use it when
she's really down - in a self-defeating, self-conscious, "I'm probably just
a 7 or a even 6" mood:) Be sensitive to her mood and if, for whatever
reason, she seems to be really suffering, forget the neg. Be the one to
bring her out of her darkness, treat her like a 6 or a 7 that she feels she
is at the moment, meaning cheer her up and compliment her _without_ any
embedded negs, but be careful - the 9 or 10 in her is only in suspended mode
and once you re-activate it, unless you change to humorous negging right
away, you'll end up being another supplicating chump - you get a hug and
then she walks away to find herself a MAN.
- When you neg, ALWAYS present it as a compliment - be charming,
friendly, positive, earnest and sincere in your "compliment":) If you
present your neg as a deliberate insult you come off as a jerk (which
however is a good excuse to "apologise" by giving her a hug and a kiss to
"make up" for your insult:). Being a jerk of course could be a turn-on for
some girls, but more often than not, it is a turn-off. Which doesn't mean
that being a nice guy is your goal, in fact that's usually an even bigger
turn-off. When you fall into the "nice" and eventually the "Let's Just Be
Friends" zone, you'll wish you would have fallen into the "jerk" zone, that
way you would at least have had some sort of a chance of doing a comeback.
So avoid being a "jerk" or a "nice guy" - just take the best of both worlds
and neg her with a "compliment":)
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Example 1 of using a neghit
ASF: "When you see a HB and she snuffs you ... tell her you think her dress is
very nice (something she has heard before) and then tell her you remember seeing
her at a club before and she was wearing the same dress. It IS nice though. :)
Whether or not you ever saw her before, you can ASSUME she HAS been social
before and that she was wearing the dress before. This deflates her INSTANTLY
and puts you in control."
Example 2 of using a neghit
Guy: What do you do?
Gal: Oh, I'm a model.
Guy: Oh yeah, your hair looks kinda nice... / Oh, like a hand model or
something?
Example 3 of using a neghit
Mystery: "If you are in a bar and you approach a girl, she basically KNOWS you
want to fuck her. You have to somehow convey that you didn't come for sex but
because you are talkative about some even MORE interesting than HER. The only
thing from you that can make a 10 NOTICE you is if you show her she doesn't
matter to you in the slightest... that is a NEG"
Update. Negging before kissing. Daniel, ASF:
"I love the little gem by mystery where he said to neg a girl before kissing
her, now how devious is that? You make her feel self conscious and then you
relieve the very feelings you caused:)"
Update. Examples of negging a beauty. (Only
for use with 10s or 9s who simply HAVE to know they ARE beautiful, any less
beautiful girls can easily be destroyed by these!) After you've negged her looks
in some manner, follow up with:
- "You are really interesting, or at least you're not THAT ugly."
- "No really, I've seen uglier girls"
- "Well, at least you should be lucky to have a good body [to compensate
for whatever it was you negged]"
Update. More neghits
Dan Scorpio, ASF:
- "You are nearly as tall as me. I like tall girls (LIFT). Are those heels
4 or 5 inches (DROP)?"
Mystery, ASF:
- "You blink alot"
- "Your nose wiggles when you talk:)"
- "Weren't you wearing this dress the last time you were here?"
- "Excuse me... may I finish my sentence first?"
- "Oooh... Sick... You just spit on me!" (when the girl is talking to
you).
ASF:
- "Your hair looks kinda nice"
Update. Challenge
Mystery, ASF:
YOU: "I don't think we should get to know each other."
HER: "Why?"
YOU: "I think you are just too much of a NICE GIRL for me."
HER: (whatever, it doesn't matter because she will try for you now)
See also
Neghits explained
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