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Ejecting
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You don't always have to close. Ross Jeffries: "I don't need to win all the
time; I size up a woman's potential and either go for it or move on and cut my
losses FAST. Sometimes the best choice is just to say, "adios" and move on. When
you realise that you don't have to win (or close) all the time, then it takes
the pressure off and you become much more relaxed. Ironically, and
paradoxically, this almost always leads to your winning far more often than you
ever imagined possible!!!!"
In addition to her not rising up to meet your standards, you could be dealing
with a woman who for some reason or another simply isn't interested. So if you
are getting none of the signs of her being interested in you in a reasonable
amount of time after a reasonable amount of effort on your part to demonstrate
personality and entertain her (with the help of using eliciting values,
patterns, GM style, neghits, telling anecdotes or funny/interesting/intriguing
stories etc), you should call it off and eject.
So many uninitiated chumps just linger on forever in the hopes of getting the
girl interested, maybe, somehow, at some point... which leaves the bored and
frustrated woman no other option than ejecting him herself, often ending the
interaction on a bad vibe and having wasted both of their times longer than
should have been necessary. If however you know when to cut your losses and
quit, you have a good chance of ending the conversation when everything is still
good (leaving an opening for a possible future interaction), you show that you
are not desperate or overeager making you look more desireable (which will
further enhance a possibility of a future interaction) and your time will be
better spent looking for and interacting with other girls who know to appreciate
you instead of this one who does not etc. You were only offering her a chance
and she failed to grab it, but you have no need to push it - you know your stuff
is good, so just eject and move on.
Here's an example ejection phrase suggested by Mystery for use in a club/bar
situation: "The night's young... pleasure meeting you".
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