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Attract girls by being busy
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Let the girls know that you are a busy and important person.
Don Diebel:
- When a girl asks you what you did yesterday, never say, "Oh, I just sat
around and was bored." Better to say, "I was up early to run errands and
take care of business, then played tennis, met a friend for lunch, and
worked in the afternoon." Lie if you have to. And don't worry, you'll get
used to it:)
- If a girl calls and asks what you are doing, reply with, "I just walked
in the door" or "I'm just on my way out to take care of business."
- Don't hang on the the phone for hours talking to girls indicating you
don't have anything else to do. Get the business of the call over, be
pleasant, then excuse yourself.
- By not calling a girl every night or contacting her every day, you show
that you are busy and have other things that are important in your life
besides her. This lets her know that she is going to have to compete for
your time.
- If you run into someone, be pleasant and friendly. Show that person
that you have an interest in her, but then excuse yourself because of having
things to do. In this way, you show her that she is going to have to work
for your time. You are not "easy."
By letting people know that you are a person doing things and active, you
suggest a lot to a girl. Certainly, you must be someone who knows where you are
going, hence, leadership. You play on her sense of wanting what she can't have
because she will have to compete for your time with all of your other
activities. You will appear to be different from all the other guys who are
hanging on her begging for her time. She will suspect that there are other girls
in your life or you wouldn't be so busy. And finally, she is going to have to
use her charms to seduce you away from all these other activities - and girls
just love a challenge:)
Update. Craig, Clifford's Seduction newsletter:
"Make her miss you. But in order for scarcity to be effective you have to be
sure of one thing. The time she does spend with you must be absolutely amazing,
and without a doubt the best time she could have with anyone. You need to be
able to create an awesome, MEMORABLE experience with anyone, anywhere,
especially when it really counts.
Also, she can NEVER be the first priority in your life. Always put her second to
something, whether it be your family, career, friends, whatever, but leave a
small piece of hope in her mind that she could become #1."
See also:
Put a price on yourself
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