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General guidelines on approaching
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Use humour to get you started - or even give you a head-start:) Ross
Jeffries: "Let's talk about using humour for a minute. Not only do most women
LOVE a guy who can make them laugh; laughing shifts a woman's physiology and
mental focus, interrupting her thought patterns and creating a temporary blank,
which YOU can then fill in. Just think about it a second. Have you ever been in
a rotten mood, and then a friend suddenly makes you laugh? What happens? You
start feeling a hell of a lot better, don't you?" What Ross Jeffries suggests as
an almost perfect approach is using a humorous comment to get her to laugh, then
all you have to do is to follow up with anything to keep the conversation
flowing towards a possibly pattern-like talk, eliciting values or any other
technique described in this guide you have chosen to use.
You can even border on slightly negging her, if you go Mystery-style with a
drop-dead gorgeous girl, or smutty, if you go GM-style, but those two are
already more advanced techniques. If however you are dealing with a nice and
cute (of 7 or 8 on a scale of 10), you can also make her feel good by
complimenting her looks for starters (see Negging for
why this is not such a good idea with a drop-dead gorgeous model-type babe of
10).
Update. Speed Seduction newsletter, Ross Jeffries:
"For me, one of my favorite ways to meet women is to use some type of humorous
approach that gets her laughing. Why is this so important?
- Laughter sets a woman at ease and puts her off guard.
- Getting her laughing shows that you are confident and don't take the
process of meeting her too seriously, unlike a desperate hard-up loser HAS
to succeed, YOU are a fun guy, enjoying your exciting life and creating an
opportunity for HER to step into it and have some fun too?IF she plays her
cards right.
- Humor is a way to test to see if SHE has a personality. If she is a
mean, unhappy be-yatch, why bother?
- MOST IMPORTANTLY, LAUGHTER GIVES YOU A BEHAVIORAL RESPONSE from her that
you can mention, incorporate, and future pace into HER IMAGINING CONTINUING
TO HAVE FUN WITH YOU LATER!
Offer entertainment and confidence with speed. ASF: "As far as you are
concerned the girl has to be entertained by you. If she sees other guys as being
more confident and more entertaining she most certainly will excuse herself to
the bathroom or the bar to hook up with them later. That's why its important to
work quickly so that you do not take more time than is necessary to secure a
chick (take her home or spend some quality KINO time with her on the
couch/dancefloor somewhere). Getting numbers on their own is unreliable."
The 3 steps of approaching. ASF:
BEGINNING - preparation ... clothing, props, initiate an entertaining and
interactive conversation (that is what an OPENER is all about).
MIDDLE - using entertaining stories and routines, you convey the humour,
confidence and the other typical attractive traits, use NEGS to make them chase
you, test them (stop conversation to see if they reinitiate it) and look for the
indicators to see if closing is worth doing (like KINO, position and body
language, laughter, etc), usually 3 positive indicators.
END - close or eject based on the indicators. Closing will stall when you
don't realise that you will succeed with the close if you have witnessed 3
positive indicators. Decide on either the *close or the #close. If pressed for
time, just #close... but try to kiss her goodbye on the LIPS if you have a
little time, always KISS CLOSE.
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