Small Penis Humiliation- How Negativity in Sex Works for Some Men

Most men are obsessed with penis size, believing that theirs is not big enough and that they need to take every measure they can to make it larger. However, a certain group of men channel these feelings of insecurity and inadequacy into achieving sexual gratification. They actually get off on having their penises ridiculed and made fun of. For these men, small penis humiliation is not only something to be enjoyed, it is actually something that they need to attain sexual fulfillment.

Small penis humiliation is a form or paraphilia, which can simply mean kinky, unusual, or abnormal sexual behavior and practices. However, the definition of kinky tends to change with the times. Homosexuality used to be classified as a paraphilic interest until psychiatrists stopped considering it as a disorder. Some forms of paraphilia are universally abhorred; such as necrophilia (sexual acts with corpses) and pedophilia (sexual acts with minors). Also, nonconsensual paraphilic acts such as rape are not only morally deplorable, they are illegal as well.

Small penis humiliation is almost always consensual and it is usually the man who seeks such treatment from a dominatrix/domina or dominant woman. It is a role-playing and fantasy session where the man acts as the dominatrix’s slave and not only accepts her verbal abuse, but craves it as well. It is also a form of psychological sadomasochism, since the man involved wants to be made fun of for not being well-endowed. What is puzzling about this is that some men with normal-size or large penises like this form of sexual play, too. In forums and web sites catering to BDSM (bondage and discipline/domination and submission/sadism and masochism) many dominae declare that some of their ‘slaves’ that enjoy small penis humiliation actually have dicks that are larger than the norm.

Some common themes seem to contribute to why this group of men enjoys small penis humiliation. They feel guilty about their penis size and feel that it is only right that they be ridiculed for it. Some men believe that having a small organ contributed to the failure of past relationships and should be punished for that. These men meekly accept their domina’s chastisement, insults, and other derogatory remarks as their due; viewing them as their just desserts for their inadequacy. For these men, small penis humiliation may actually be cathartic.

Experts in the practice of female domination (femdom) report that men who crave small penis humiliation will do everything that is asked of them as long as there is constant emphasis on how small and inadequate they are. These men will masturbate or engage in sexual intercourse while being berated for their shortcomings. It should be emphasized, though, that the conduct of women engaging in such BDSM fantasy sessions is aimed at accommodating the needs and desires of these men. In real life, women do not rank penis size among the top elements of successful sex. Small penis humiliation is just a job for many of them, and a number of dominae actually declare feeling sorry for the men who thrive on this type of sexual behavior.